What i mean is not in term of personality but in term of ..erm...quiet and noisy? Haha...
BAD aka NOISY: 1S2 is my class...I am the boss there...Everyone in the class got to listen to me and consult me if there is any problem....BUT...the situation is weird...everyone..almost everyone...is very noisy and dun care about me at all unless there is trouble...Ohno...Even during class lessons, they are still the same...makes me so sick one day that i scold all of them and have especially warned a particularly noisy student...Lesson that day was great as i was able to instill some of my lesson plan....Such a relief...
GOOD aka QUIET: 1S1....Not exactly quiet though...The first day, they have left me with a good impression but the next class...the impression was shattered...They become noisy but i made a pact with them that they will remain quiet and docile when i am presenting my 'lecture' or should i say my teaching and then they can make the noise (which is still the tolerable noise) when i get them to do work....but of course they will still need to complete all the work no matter of the noise they make...
This is a BIG word...and it can be a meaningless word....Recently i was given the chance to open my eyes to a whole new world of broken hearts...How it can be so devastating...Loads of advices will be herd by the broken-hearted ones...
--} Time will heals the pain
--} You will recover
--} He was never the right one for you
--} Forget him. You can still live
BUT that is not what the broken-hearted one will do. They will feel:
--} The world has ended
--} The future is dark and uncertain
--} He is still the one...until another one (new) arrives
--} There is no way to forget him
Regretfully....the things that friend can do is to offer those pieces of advice and hope that the advices would enlighten the broken-hearted to be strong and regain their normal state...
What they really need is to say it all out. Someone..a friend...to listen to all the whinings?
A Piece of Advice and A Note to Myself:
Never never fall into a relationship in a short time. Always spend a great amount of time to observe the guy. Let the guy wait to see his sincerity.
If ever get into another breakup, make sure that I get an appropriate 'victim' to flush out all the frustration...haha...
Stages of Broken Heart:
1. Missing him: Even if you never miss the guy badly when you are together with him, you will
miss the guy terribly after the break-up
2. Hating him: Everything about him...old or new things...you will criticize it. You will hate him
so terribly that the merely sight of him will set you to curse him non-stop while
denying that you hate him
3. Love him: A bit of love for him or it could be a bit of missing him. But you know there is no
chance that the two of you will ever be together again. Somehow you will feel much
wiser and thankful to him for making you wiser.
4. Nothing: After a long time, suddenly you find yourself feeling nothing. He has fade into your
past and does not mean anything at all.
All of the above stages are of my own observation. It may varies for different individuals.
P/S: CK, if you ever get to read this, I want you to know that you means nothing to me already.
We will forever be just friends. Just promise not to make me hate you. You have the tendency of making people hate you, in case you dont know...:P